Tabby and Alan on “Attitude Versus Actions”

Address specific behaviors, rather than general assumed mindsets, like “attitude” for more effective communication. Also, some of you pointed out last week that the 90-second burn is longer than 90 seconds.  It is, but the content portion is about 90 seconds.  You may skip the introduction, and the silliness at the end, but you’d miss … Read more

What’s next? Can you learn something in 90 seconds?

After over 3 years, and over 125 posts, this blog will continue in a new format: the 90-second burn. To learn more about this project, please watch: Got 90 seconds per week?  Of course you do!  Subscribe at the right and join in the fun, starting next week. Thanks for all the support and input … Read more

Insecurity is Normal?

In April of 2011, I was caught off-guard by a silly combination of factors: Toward the end of one day, a notification popped up during a pre-dinner networking event: Everyone else is just as insecure as you are. I wished I hadn’t seen that — it would be a while before it would be possible … Read more

What if someone doesn’t accept an apology?

A couple weeks ago, I shared the Quantum Apology Formula. Two days ago, someone asked “Yeah, but what if your apology isn’t accepted?” The short answer is: It’s mostly on them.  They have to stay “above the line” or “out of the box” to accept.  However, only YOU control YOU, so you can’t make someone accept. … Read more

Effective Leaders Say it All…

A true staff meeting story: Tyler turned to Tykeshia and said “I never know where I stand with you.” Tykeshia replied, “Don’t worry. When you screw something up, I’ll tell you. You’re doing just fine.” Tyler look back to Tykeshia and summoned his courage, and said “I’m sorry. That just doesn’t work for me. I need to … Read more